Safety Guidelines
Last Updated: December 14, 2025
Quick Summary (Full Guidelines below)
Meeting new people is exciting, but your safety always comes first. Here are the essentials to keep in mind on elloo and when meeting in person:
- Take your time getting to know someone before you meet
- Meet in public places where you feel comfortable
- Tell a friend where you're going and who you're meeting
- Keep personal and financial information private until trust is built
- Trust your instincts—if something feels off, walk away
- Arrange your own transportation whenever possible
- Report suspicious behavior, red flags, or anything that makes you uncomfortable
- You're in control—you never owe anyone a meetup, reply, or explanation
Stay safe, trust your instincts, and enjoy making genuine connections on elloo. Your safety is in your hands, and we're here to support you with the tools and information you need.
Full Safety Guidelines below.
1. Staying Safe on the App
Before meeting anyone in person, take time to get a sense of who they are.
Take Things Slow
You're not in a rush. Chat for a while, ask questions, and notice how they communicate. Consistency is a great sign; pressure and rushing are red flags.
Extra Caution When Using "Meet":
When you use elloo's "Meet" feature (which connects you with users available to meet today), you may have less time to get to know them before meeting. Take these extra precautions:
- Spend at least 15-30 minutes chatting in the app first
- Ask questions to get a sense of who they are
- Pay extra attention to red flags
- Don't feel rushed just because it's "today"
- It's okay to suggest meeting tomorrow or another day instead
Just because someone is available today doesn't mean you have to meet today. Real connections are worth the wait.
Stay on elloo for Safety
Keep your conversations on elloo until you feel comfortable. Our AI moderation can help protect you from scams and inappropriate content. Be cautious if someone insists on moving to other apps immediately—scammers often do this to avoid detection.
Safety Scanning: Under Republic Act No. 11930 (Anti-OSAEC/CSAEM Law), we automatically scan all messages, photos, and media for illegal content including Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM) to protect all users. This mandatory safety measure cannot be disabled.
Protect Your Personal Info
Before trust is established, avoid sharing:
- Your home address
- Workplace or daily routine
- Exact location
- Your financial details
- Family information
- Social media accounts if you prefer privacy
If someone insists on getting personal information too soon, that's a warning sign.
Spot Red Flags Early
Be cautious if someone:
- Asks for money or "help" before meeting
- Refuses to video call
- Gets angry when you set boundaries
- Pushes to meet privately
- Gives vague or inconsistent stories
- Tries to rush intimacy or trust
If something feels off, trust yourself.
2. Staying Safe When Meeting in Person
Meeting someone new can be fun—just keep these essentials in mind.
Meet in Public First
Choose bright, busy places:
- Cafés
- Restaurants
- Malls
- Parks
- Public events
Avoid private locations, apartments, hotel rooms, or remote areas for first meetups.
Tell Someone Your Plans
Share with a friend or family member:
- Who you're meeting
- Where you're going
- The time you expect to be home
Consider sending a quick check-in text before and after the meetup.
Consider Bringing Someone Along
If you'd feel more comfortable with a friend or family member nearby for your first meeting, suggest it. A genuine person will understand and respect this.
Arrange Your Own Transport
Control when you arrive and when you leave:
- Avoid letting people you just met pick you up or drop you off at your home
- If you feel uncomfortable at any point, you can leave anytime—no explanation needed
Keep Your Belongings with You
Hold your bag, phone, and personal items. Avoid leaving drinks or food unattended.
Stay Sober Enough to Stay Aware
If you choose to drink, pace yourself. It's easier to make smart decisions when you're alert and in control.
Move at Your Own Pace
You never owe:
- Physical contact
- A second meetup
- Going somewhere private
- Continuing a conversation
- "Being nice" if you feel unsafe
Your comfort comes first.
Meeting as a Couple or Group
If you're using elloo's couples feature:
Both Partners Should Agree:
- Make sure both you and your partner are comfortable
- Discuss boundaries and expectations beforehand
- Have a safety signal between partners
- Either partner can decide to leave at any time
Additional Safety Tips:
- Meet other couples in very public places
- Consider group activities instead of private settings
- Make sure everyone is on the same page about the meeting's purpose
- Respect everyone's boundaries
3. Protecting Yourself Emotionally and Financially
Meeting new people involves emotions—and not everyone online has good intentions.
Never Send Money to Someone You Haven't Met
Romance scams are common worldwide. Be cautious with:
- "Emergency" requests
- Bills, rent, or medical stories
- People who become overly affectionate too quickly
Even small requests can be an early sign of manipulation. Never send money to someone you've only met online.
Common Financial Scams
Romance Scams:
- Scammer builds emotional connection quickly
- Creates fake emergency or sob story
- Asks for money with promise to pay back
- Disappears after receiving money
Investment Scams:
- Person claims to be successful investor
- Offers to "help you" make money through crypto, forex, or schemes
- Asks you to invest or transfer money
- Takes your money and disappears
Protection: elloo is for meeting people, not business opportunities. Block anyone promoting investments or asking for GCash transfers.
Don't Share Explicit Photos
Even with someone you trust, images can be saved, shared, or misused. elloo removes explicit images automatically, but always protect yourself.
Extortion Scams:
- Scammer requests intimate photos or videos
- Threatens to share them with your contacts
- Demands money to "delete" them
Protection: Never share intimate photos with people you don't know well.
Recognize Catfishing
How it works:
- Person uses fake photos or stolen identity
- Creates elaborate stories to avoid meeting
- May ask for money or intimate photos
Protection: Video chat before meeting, reverse image search their photos if suspicious, meet in person soon.
Set Boundaries You're Comfortable With
Emotionally manipulative behaviors can include:
- Guilt-tripping
- Pressuring for fast intimacy
- Love-bombing
- Making you feel responsible for their feelings
- Threatening self-harm
If a conversation makes you anxious or uncomfortable, you can block or report anytime.
4. Red Flags and What to Watch Out For
Here are common danger signs reported by users:
Behavioral Red Flags
- Refusing to video call
- Avoiding basic questions
- Getting angry when you set boundaries
- Asking for photos you're not comfortable sending
- Talking about money early
- Trying to isolate you from friends or family
- Insisting on private meetups
- Pressuring you to meet immediately
- Being vague about their life or situation
- Love bombing (excessive affection too quickly)
Scam-Related Red Flags
- Crypto "investments"
- Requests for GCash transfers
- "Friend in trouble" stories
- Asking you to download unknown apps
- Sending suspicious links
- Fake emergency situations requiring immediate financial help
- Sob stories about sick relatives, accidents, or debt
Profile Red Flags
- Photos that look too professional or model-like
- Very limited information in profile
- Age or location that seems inconsistent with photos
- Refusing to share recent photos
- Photos that reverse image search to someone else
Aggression or Control
- Monitoring your activity
- Being pushy about meeting
- Jealousy after just a few chats
- Making you feel guilty for saying no
- Continuing to message after you've asked them to stop
If someone checks multiple boxes, walk away.
5. What To Do If Something Feels Wrong
Trust Yourself
If anything feels off—even if you can't explain it—you can:
- End the conversation
- Leave the meetup
- Block the person
- Report them on elloo
Your instincts exist to protect you.
Use the Report Feature
Use the in-app tools to report:
- Fake profiles
- Harassment or threatening behavior
- Scam attempts or requests for money
- Inappropriate sexual content
- Underage users
- Any behavior that makes you uncomfortable
How to Report:
- Tap the report icon on their profile or message
- Select the reason for reporting
- Provide any relevant details
- Submit the report
What Happens: The user will be automatically blocked from contacting you, and our moderation team will review the report.
Block Immediately
If someone makes you uncomfortable, block first, reflect later. You never have to justify it.
How to Block:
- Go to their profile
- Tap the block option
- Confirm
What Happens: They can't message you, view your profile, or see you in search results. Blocks cannot be undone.
Reporting After In-Person Meetups
If something concerning happens during or after a meetup:
- You can still report the user through the app
- Provide details about what happened
- We may take action based on off-platform behavior
- For serious safety concerns, also contact authorities
6. If You Ever Feel Unsafe or Threatened
Immediate Danger
If you're in immediate danger:
- Call 911
- Go to a safe public place
- Alert security or staff where you are
- Contact friends or family
Philippine Emergency Contacts
Philippine National Police:
Emergency Hotline: 911
PNP Anti-Cybercrime Group:
Email: acg@pnp.gov.ph
NBI Cybercrime Division:
Email: ccd@nbi.gov.ph
You may report to authorities before or after reporting to elloo. For online threats, stalking, harassment, or extortion, contact the PNP Anti-Cybercrime Group or NBI Cybercrime Division.
7. Updates to These Safety Guidelines
We may update these Safety Guidelines from time to time to reflect safety improvements, new features, or community feedback.
How We Notify You:
- The "Last Updated" date at the top will be revised
- For material changes, we will send in-app notifications
Continued use of elloo after changes take effect constitutes acceptance of the updated guidelines.
8. Your Responsibility and Legal Information
What elloo Provides
We provide:
- Safety tools (report and block features)
- AI moderation to detect harmful content
- These safety guidelines and resources
- A platform to connect with others
What We Cannot Do
We cannot:
- Guarantee the safety of any interaction
- Verify the identity or background of users
- Monitor all conversations or behavior
- Prevent all scams, fraud, or harmful situations
- Control what happens during in-person meetings
- Protect you from the actions of other users
Your Role
You are responsible for:
- Your own safety decisions
- Choosing who to meet and where
- Protecting your personal information
- Recognizing and avoiding scams
- Reporting concerning behavior
- Following these safety guidelines
Important Legal Information:
As stated in Section 11 (Disclaimer of Warranties & Limitation of Liability) of our Terms and Conditions, you use elloo at your own risk. We do not conduct background checks, verify identities, or assume any duty to protect users from other users' conduct. We are not liable for any harm, injury, or loss arising from your interactions with other users, whether online or offline.
For complete information about user responsibilities and liability limitations, please review Section 11 (Disclaimer of Warranties & Limitation of Liability) of our Terms and Conditions.
Contact Us
For inquiries and requests, please use the appropriate contact email below:
General inquiries: contact@elloo.app
Customer support: support@elloo.app
Moderation appeals: appeal@elloo.app
Security issues: security@elloo.app
Legal matters: legal@elloo.app
Data privacy requests: datarequest@elloo.app
Company Information
Operated by: elloo Labs
SEC/DTI Registration: [Number]